I didn't intend for my last post to elicit sympathy. I guess it did, though!
I'll take sympathy any chance I can get..it's like crack to me :)
Anyway, one of my all time favorite bloggers asked me to blog about my love life.
This is the "Spinster Chronicles" after all, so I guess I should comment on my non married life style.
I am not dating.
The South is not a treasure trove of hot, metrosexual, wealthy, Mormon men. Which are just a few of my qualifications for a future husband. Other qualifications include: good dancer, have an accent, willing to cry on command, harry potter fan, employed, have a twin, be able to fix my car, and the ability to make me laugh- which is actually harder than it seems. Most of my laughter is polite and meaningless
I could both see myself and not see myself getting married in the next 10 years or so. I have a plan for both of these contingencies.
Who doesn't want to find the love of their life? Who doesn't want to swept away in romance and then have a long and content life with someone? Have children and a home and someone to support them?
I would love all of these things.
However, I am kinda at peace with possibly not having them.
I have been in love once. Not like "in a five year relationship then he broke my heart" kind of love. I guess 'intense infatuation" would probably be a better description.
Songs and poems and life seemed to have so much more meaning and there were moments when I felt like I couldn't breathe.
Anyway, I hope this update on my love life (or lack thereof) is all you could have wanted, Mrs. B Roth:)
Lolee