Right from the start

ERI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lori Ann 

Heavenly Peace

So, I've been trying to read my scriptures every day. 

I am doing the random "let me open up and see what God wants me to learn today" method of scripture study :) 

It's been interesting. 

The older I get and the more of life I see, the more valuable I find the words of God contained in the scriptures. 

I've read from every standard work this week, I think. 

I gravitate towards the New Testament and the Book of Mormon but they are all amazing. 

I stumbled on this one this week. 

I know that, in comparison with almost every one else on Earth, I am very lucky and very blessed. 

I try and remember that. 

But there are some days when I feel so lost. 

And overwhelmed. 

The holidays are always a tough time for people with mental health issues. 

I've had people LITERALLY on their knees saying "please help me".

I worry about them. 

I worry that I can't help them enough. 

I know God is watching out for every one of them. 

Just like He watches out for me. 

And when I find scriptures like this, on days when I feel like I just can't keep doing this, it reminds me that I am not doing this alone. 

It's never just me and the other person there in my office. 

I can feel the Spirit there so strongly some times and I always hope my clients can too. 

I just want them to be able to know that God loves them and has not forgotten them and there is no pain that they go through that Jesus did not feel. 

There is no burden they are bearing that He cannot take from their shoulders. 

Lately I've been feeling like I need to slowly head towards Christian counseling.

Maybe even specifically LDS counseling. 

I feel like I am working with one hand tied behind my back because I can only present my clients with half the answers I feel like they need.

Instead of giving them the homework of writing a letter to their childhood self, I want to give them the homework to pray and look for God to inspire them and guide them. 

To ask Him to lift their burdens. 

Anyway, I know this post was kind of long and rambling but I have been thinking about this alot. 

And I am so grateful for the knowledge I have and the blessings I have and the scriptures in my life. 

In closing, my favorite Book of Mormon scripture...

Lori Ann

All I need

T and D back in their dating days 

Ok, 

So....my life takes odd turns at times. 

In the past week or so I have been

A. Trying to figure out how to get a Peruvian back to Peru without a passport. 

(hint: it's not as easy as you might think)

B. Trying to find an emotionally available, single, employed gay man in the Northern New Jersey area. And not having much luck.

C. Been spying on and documenting the misadventures of my mother's favorite ginger cat. 

D. Take half vacation days from work because I just can't. I literally cannot. 

E. Holding random people's craft projects hostage. 

So, that's the magic of the holidays this week, people!

Lori Ann

Christmas Sugar

It's that magical time of year, people. 

The time when I set goals I have no real plans to achieve. 

You guessed it...it time for the Infamous....

Spinster Chronicle's 2014 Holiday To Do List

(I consider not achieving these goals as a good trial run for not achieving my New Years Resolutions!)

Anyway, let's do this dance!

1. See a choir concert.

 Listening to live Christmas music inspires me so much. 

2. Write a Christmas Card to every single one of my 1st cousins.

 Its the #Year of the Cousin, baby!

3. Spend an entire day in my pajamas. 

4. Volunteer 

5. Make Christmas cookies/crafts with my nieces and nephews

6. Go to Washington's Crossing on Christmas Day with the missionaries

7. Throw a legit Festivus party 

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So, that's pretty much it. 

I am sure there are other things but these are the main things I want to do. 

I am trying to rein in the Christmas craziness this year. 

Trying.  

Lori Ann

p.s.- These are for Aunt Erin who called me JUST to say "There aren't enough pictures of Sugar on your blog" :) 

This much cuteness should be illegal. It probably already is in some states. 

Sugar and I each have a pillow on my bed. I stay away from her pillow. Because I want to live to see another day :) 

Behold, my posterity. 

The Santa Hat Experience 

Sugar feels the same way as I do about my parent's seventies couch 

Fall is both of our favorite season. Mine for the falling leaves. Hers because she can blend into the foliage better and attack unsuspecting hedgehogs :) 

It's amazing that the brain generates enough power to keep those legs moving...

Another Random Picture Post

(because I am trying to avoid doing my work)

(which I will complain about later "I can never get caught up on my work!")

ANYWAY....

I like to take "candid" pictures of the sisters teaching.

I promise- it's more exciting than it looks.

And I am not at all distracting, taking random pictures in the middle of the discussion.

The great candy lights experiment failed.

Sometimes I think my dad is right.

I am lacking both common sense and the brains God gave a guinea pig.

I am in holiday baking mode, people!

Be warned...if you live in the tri-state area, you will be getting something baked from me.

Then I will sit there and socially obligate you to eat it and saw positive things about it AND me.

I get to visit my niece and nephew- Pumpkin and Buster- by facetime.

They are still evil- even over the camera.

20 days until Erin Leigh comes home!!!

It's not Christmas until she is here!!!!!!!!!!!


Lori Ann

If you ever change your mind

A Random Sunday Afternoon Crafting and Other Stuff Picture Update 

 Each year, my crafting abilities grow.

 This was this years M&M turkey.

 Epic.  

 This was a Reeses tree my friend Dawn sent me from Pinterest. 

As you can see, I improved upon it. 

 These were the Pilgrim hat cookies we made.

 My mom put mine in the middle of the tray to kind of hide them.

 I think it was because they were the most special. 

 These were some odd cinnamon rolls that the Internet lied and called "easy to bake". 

The Internet lies to me all the time. 

 I spent 6 hours out with the sister missionaries the other day.

 We were contacting members who hadn't been to church in a while.

Some of the houses we pulled up to were really dark and creepy

 (this one was the worst- the flash was the only light)

 I kept telling them that if I got murdered they had to name their kids after me.

 (but not my name...Harry Potter names)

 Sugar loves being dressed up as Santa's cat!

 She is so precious though, amirite?

 After the 'easy to bake' cinnamon roll disaster, my mom told me that I shouldn't have bread rising in the kitchen- it's too cold.

 Then she moved my dough without telling me. 

THIS is where I found it. 

Today we talked about Daniel and the Lion's Den in Sunday school. 

Somehow, I ended up trying to explain rotary phones and having to remind the kids that Daniel DID NOT, in fact, turn into a three headed magical lion after a night in the Lion's Den. 

He just survived. 

Sometimes I think the Old Testament, even with all it's miracles and drama, is a little bit of a disappointment to them. 

Ok- so that is where my life is. 

I am off to commence my Sunday afternoon baking party!!

Lori Ann

Which is soft but it's clear

Press play before reading!!

 

This beautiful thing is 11 today.

I haven't seen him once.

I've been out most of the day and I gave him his gift yesterday (because I have no self control) but I am still sad.

I wanted to see if he looks any older now that he is 11.

He's 11 now but when I look at him I still see my sweet baby James.

I used to sing it to him.

I knew even then that it was something I did more for myself than for him.

I think he would have preferred me to sing nothing at all!!

But that doesn't stop me from having magical memories of holding the James baby (with his large head that all the ladies always commented on "Look at that baby's head!") and rocking him and singing.

Goodnight you moonlight ladies

Rockabye sweet baby James

Deep greens and blues are the colors I choose

Won't you let me go down in my dreams

And Rockabye sweet baby James 

James Ray...if you read this one day....

I love you. 

I have always loved you 

You made me life magical from the very first day you were born

On a chilly black Friday afternoon in 2003 

You will always be my turkey baby 

And I am always here if you need anything

Aunt Lori